3. Focus on feeling rather than form.
Why do any of us even want a relationship? It takes so much energy and often requires a lot of compromise, so why bother at all? Whoever you are, the basic reason for why you want a relationship is to feel good. You want to feel good about life, yourself, and the future. But what if I told you that you don’t actually need a relationship to start feeling that way? Imagine this scenario: You’re reading the last chapter of a book, and it has just had the happiest ending you could imagine. You close that book feeling uplifted, joyful, and hopeful. Why? Nothing in your life has changed, and yet everything suddenly seems better. You were able to manufacture positive feelings through the power of your imagination. Embarking on a spiritual journey for love requires the same shift in your mindset. Start focusing on how you want a relationship to make you feel, and then take action to help yourself feel those feelings right now. For example, if physical intimacy is important to you because it makes you feel safe, try hugging yourself in the mornings or taking a long luxurious bath to relax. It may sound trite, but it works! I have seen it happen in my own life and the lives of many of my clients.
Suggested Tarot question: What can I do to cultivate more gratitude and good feeling in my life?